(On the flip side, Moore talks the reader through friendship breakups and ghosting.) Looking at every type of friendship - from the casual work acquaintance to roommates to longtime childhood companions - Moore unpacks creating healthy boundaries, asking for what you need in a friendship, animals as friends, what to do if you fall in love with a friend, how marriage and kids affect friendships and common attachment styles in friendships. “You Will Find Your People” is not so much an instruction manual about making friends as it is a nuanced discussion around how to find, heal and/or nurture genuinely fulfilling friendships. Now, in her equally forthright and funny follow-up, “ You Will Find Your People: How to Make Meaningful Friendships as an Adult”, Moore takes her journey a step further by challenging the preconceived ideas we have around friendship. She wrote about spending years living with attachment issues and dreading every holiday season and Mother’s Day - because she literally could not go home. In her first book, the hilarious yet utterly candid “How to Be Alone: If You Want to, and Even If You Don’t” (2018), Moore looked back at her history with abandonment, social isolation, familial abuse and estrangement. Lane Moore is many things: a writer, comedian, actor and musician, to name a few.

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